My husband is demanding I sign over half the house to him. I don’t want to. And I have my reasons.
My world tilted on its axis when my husband, Geoffrey, came home from work and dropped a bombshell I never saw coming. The house—a two-storey with a generous garden—was left to me by my grandmother. But don’t go thinking it fell into my lap without a fight. Years ago, a fire gutted the place, leaving little more than charred beams and bitter memories. A year back, I finally took the plunge to restore it. Every pound for bricks, every penny for the builders, I earned myself, clawing my way up in a world that doesn’t hand out favours. I worked myself ragged to breathe life back into those walls, into the very bones of a house that holds my family’s history.
We live in a snug little town called Barnstable, where gossip spreads faster than a summer cold. Geoffrey’s never been the breadwinner—his wages are paltry, most of it vanishing into child support for his kids from his first marriage: one in diapers, the other at uni. I never held it against him, but I also never expected him to be my knight in shining armour. The house, the cosiness, the stability? That’s all me. I’ve grown used to it. Used to the way he huffs if I ask him to pick up milk on his way home, then reminds me for days how he “saved my life” by doing so. But his latest demand? That knocked the wind right out of me.
The evening had been perfectly ordinary: me whisking supper in the kitchen, the smell of fresh bread warming the air, the Devon wind rattling the windows. Geoffrey stomped in, tossed his bag aside, and—without so much as glancing at me—said, “Emily, you need to put half the house in my name.” I froze, the wooden spoon clattering onto the counter. “What?” I asked, praying I’d misheard. But he doubled down, sharper this time: “It’s about trust. Or am I just some bloke you keep around out of habit?”
I felt my pulse thumping in my temples. The house is mine—my inheritance, my fortress, my everything. I poured not just money but sleepless nights and dreams into it. And now he wants half? Friends, family—they’ve all chorused, “Don’t do it, Emily.” And I get it. What if our marriage crumbles? Geoffrey could walk off with half my home—the one I rebuilt with my own hands. It’s not fair. It’s terrifying.
But it’s not just divorce I’m wary of. Even if we last ‘til death do us part, I can’t shake the thought that he might one day leave his share to his kids. He adores them, and fair enough—but I’m not about to split my grandmother’s legacy with people who’ve never set foot here. I won’t gamble with that. Won’t let my safe haven become a bargaining chip in his plans.
I’ve tried reasoning with him. Over shepherd’s pie one night, I said, “Geoffrey, this house is all I’ve got. I can’t just hand half of it over. It’s not about trust—it’s about my future.” He just scowled. “If you don’t trust me, why are we even married?” His words stung, but I held my ground. I won’t trade my peace for his pride.
Now, the air between us is thick as custard. He eyes me like I’ve betrayed him, while a wall grows inside me, brick by brick. I love him, but love shouldn’t mean losing myself. My mates at the little café on the edge of Barnstable nod sagely: “Stand firm, Em. It’s yours.” And they’re right. But how do I make Geoffrey see that my ‘no’ isn’t a rejection of him?
At night, I stare at the ceiling, wide awake. I remember Gran’s stories about this house, how she wanted it to be my sanctuary. I won’t dishonour that. Won’t dishonour myself. Geoffrey might never understand, but I won’t risk everything for his comfort. This house is mine, and I’ll defend it like it’s my own child.
Life in Barnstable trundles on. Neighbours still wave, the garden blooms, and the house stands—a testament to my grit. But my heart’s uneasy. I don’t know how this ends. I only know this: I won’t surrender what’s rightfully mine. Not for Geoffrey, not for harmony, not for anyone’s expectations. This house is my story. And no one gets to rewrite it.